Once you’ve realized there has to be a better way, you are ready to ask the questions that will lead you to YOUR way, your truth.
If you’re like me, you grew up learning “how to be good enough.” You were steeped in the stories of who a good person was. Those are the stories that play in your head everyday. Those are the stories that you use to measure your goodness. Even if you don’t like the stories and you don’t agree with them, they are there, playing in a continuous loop over and over again.
To make real change you have to recognize those stories and release them. But in order to do this, you need new stories to replace the old ones. One of my favorite quotes is by Buckminster Fuller.
“You never change things by fighting reality. To change something,
build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.”
Begin today to dream about your new stories.
Dream the stories in which you are good enough.
Dream the stories in which you are happy.
Dream the stories in which you live a life that feels right for you.
Imagine waking up in the morning and liking the skin you are in. Imagine wearing the clothes that make you feel good.
Imagine doing things because they are important to you.
Imagine loving being you.
Share your stories with me. I will hold your dreams for you, and help you move towards making them a reality.